Ask Dr. NerdLove: Off The Leash
Dear Dr. NerdLove, I am a 24 year old gamer lady currently engaged to my very own gamer lad. We’ve been together for three years and decided about six months ago that marriage was in the cards. He is...
View ArticlePaging Dr. NerdLove Episode #16: What Makes A Great Lover?
This week, we’re talking’ ’bout bangin’! The good Doctor answers the important questions: how do you tell someone when you have a fetish? How should an bi-curious man in an open relationship go...
View ArticleAsk Dr. NerdLove: Unmet Needs
I’m a husband and father in my mid-thirties, and my wife has multiple sclerosis, which has left her with permanent muscle pain and fatigue such that she can’t work or do housework. However, what I’m...
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What Can One Man’s Mistake Teach Us About Open Relationships?
On Monday, I mentioned how the universe liked to drop the occasional subject into my lap, sparing me the time and effort to come up with a new topic. I didn’t exactly expect the same thing to happen...
View ArticleAsk Dr. NerdLove: How Can I Be A Better Wingman?
Hi Doc, I have a question which is a bit different from your usual fare, but I hope you can help me with. I’m a gay man in my 20s and I like to go out with my friends. Many of these friends are single...
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Know It’s A Date?
Dear Dr.NerdLove; I am a long time reader of your blog, I feel like this is what it would look like if Cosmopolitan ran a science journal. Anyways, I am contacting you in search of advice. I am a...
View ArticleAsk Dr. NerdLove: Non-Monogamy Blues
Hi Dr. NerdLove! I am in a happy relationship of nearly 5 years, I love my girlfriend and we are both very happy. Around 1 year ago I felt like I needed more close relationships with other people. I...
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Can I STOP Being Poly?
Hello Good Doctor! I’ve been a long time reader, and over the years have used a good number of your suggestions for improving myself, and so wanted to start by saying thank you for the help! A little...
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Help My Abused Girlfriend?
Hey Dr. NerdLove! I found your website when I was searching the phrase “when to DTR.” I’ve been reading some articles and ADNL, and decided to contact you with a question of my own.... Read more...
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5 Questions You Should Ask Before You Start A Relationship
Let me ask you something: how often does your relationship fall apart as soon as you get out of the honeymoon period? It’s an incredibly common issue; things are going wonderfully for the first... Read...
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Wednesday Open Thread: Game Master’s Bane Edition
It’s Wednesday, which means it’s time for a little website news update. I know that’s not how the usual Wednesday open thread starts, but we’re doing things slightly... Read more...
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Talk About My Past In Porn?
(Doctor’s Note: We’re talking about porn and sex work today. While I know that these can be divisive issues, I’m warning everyone now: I’m not going to tolerate any sort of... Read more...
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Don’t Try To Be Happy
It seems like everyone’s trying to be happy. Happiness is constantly marketed to us as a goal that we need to reach. Are you happy? Are you happy right now? No? Well that’s a problem! Buy... Read more...
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Wednesday Open Thread: This Is Halloween Edition
It’s Wednesday, which means it’s time for the Doc to strap on his proton pack and remind those undead sonsobitches that his doctorate is in METAPHYSICS. Meanwhile, the NerdLove interns... Read more...
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Paging Dr. NerdLove Minisode #01 – How To Pick Up Cosplayers
Hello you gorgeous and terrible pheromone angels of the Internet, the greatest dating advice podcast, Paging Dr. NerdLove, is back. These minisodes are a series of shorter, more-focused episodes......
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: But She Says He’s Just A Friend…
Dear Dr. NerdLove, I’ve been dating my girlfriend for a year now, and we’re going strong. I love her and I know she loves me and that is an amazing thing. However, there is just one thing... Read more...
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How To Be More Persuasive
Ever gotten into an argument with someone who’s clearly wrong, but you can’t change their mind? Wish you could just Jedi mind-trick your racist uncle into not voting for a bigot? Or have... Read more...
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Wednesday Open Thread: Kung-Fu Fighting Edition
It’s Wednesday, which means it’s time for the Doc to slip through the portal in his office to a sacred temple in Nepal. Meanwhile, the NerdLove interns and residents take over the... Read more...
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Paging Dr. NerdLove Minisode Episode #02 – How To Get Over Your Ex
Breaking up is hard to do, but getting over your ex can be even harder. The mistake most people make is that getting over an ex isn’t a matter of time… it’s a matter of *growth*.... Read more...
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: Is It The Red Pill or Nothing?
Hi there Doc! I’ve been reading your blog for some time but really could use some personal advice. So, I’m 22 years old and horrible with women. A couple of years ago I stumbled upon the... Read more...
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